Marriage is always going to be a big deal. It’s a commitment that no one should ever be taking lightly. It’s not necessarily something that you can just invest yourself in without really taking into consideration what that is going to mean for you or for your relationship. When you get married to someone, there should be no turning back. You don’t want to be in a marriage with someone who you eventually find out to be a person you never should have gotten with in the first place. Ending a relationship is heart bre-aking; but ending a marriage can destroy your life. You want a man who is going to really be there for you; someone who can convince you that he’s worth taking a chance on. You need a man who is REALLY ready to be in a long and happy marriage. And if you want to know what that kind of man looks like, just make sure to heed the following signs:
He doesn’t try to hide you or conceal you. He isn’t shy about you. And he doesn’t try to hold you back from achieving success. He is genuinely proud of you.
He is consistent. His love is consistent and solid. He is with you even when you’re being difficult to be with. He stays with you even when you try to push him away with your nastiness. He’s solid with you even when there’s no reason to be.
You’re a couple. But you’re going to have a few disagreements here and there. You aren’t always going to be able to see eye to eye on everything. You are bound to have a few conflicting opinions every once in a while. But that’s important is that you are both able to work through your conflicts – and he has to know how to do so.
He always stays genuine and consistent. You never feel like you ever have to doubt who he is or what he brings to the table. He always stays true to who he really is on the inside.
He knows that the important people in your life are people he has to take seriously as well. He understands that he has to consider them just as important to his own self.
He wouldn’t hesitate to drop everything just to make sure that you’re okay. He would always prioritize you. He would never do anything to make you feel like you’re merely an option to him.
He is always on the frontlines when it comes to making you happy. He always wants to be able to add joy and positive energy into your life. He wants to make sure that you are as joyful and as contented as can be.
He never makes you feel like you aren’t enough for him. He never pressures you into changing into anyone other than who you already are. He doesn’t make you feel like you need to be someone else to make him happy.
Sometimes, it’s just a matter of being able to listen to your instincts. If your gut is there telling you that he’s the guy that you’re meant to be with forever, then you shouldn’t be arguing anymore. He’s the one.
This is how people reacted to this post:
Akademic Pearlfection - So in season. God knows who to send at the right time. I thank you for being obedient to God, and allowing Him to use you to be a blessing to so many others.
Andy - The first rule of love is to learn to love yourself, if you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone else
Kessa Cooper - Am in the single season but waiting patiently for my husband god is preparing me for. Your tips are very helpful Karolyne
Angeline Arumugam - I have not found a man with these qualities, believing & trusting God to meet the one He has created for me
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